1. I am a masculine CIS-Gender, heterosexual male. I am not a cross-dresser. I am neither gender-queer nor gender non-conforming. 2. I like to wear high heels! I'm good at it. I like the feeling I and think it looks good. I collect them and, when I have the courage, wear them in public. These two statements are, for many people, mutually exclusive! High heels are women's shoes! They are feminine! They are for women only! Men should not wear them! Apart from women, only transvestites and LGBTQ+ men wear heels! Men in heels? Oh no! It looks awful! Hairy legs and heels? Complete turn-off! It looks effeminate! I couldn't have a relationship with a man who wears heels! A real man does not wear heels! In my opinion, this is all bullshit. It is an anachronism to assign any type of task, job, career, sport, clothing, shoes, jewelry, make-up or whatever to a gender or sexual orientation. Although I am constantly confronted with the fact that it still happens - a lot! Whatev...
